I’m in a serious dilemma, i have to do whats best for both?

I don’t do “please lets talk about it” i just get up and go. Were in a serious way with the recession, i’m out of work and she’s bringing in a wage. I’m just a construction labourer she’s a trained qualified professional teacher by trade but dropped down to clerical work to be with me. I have nowhere to go but i’m an expert in survival, she has a family and a good well paid job waiting for her. I have to call it quits, were beat, the recession won. What should i do?
I don’t want to leave her, i love her with all my heart. But she has a chance where she belongs to be, i belong here with nothing. she’s English i’m Irish. She has family i have none.

you sound low on your self esteem, times are tough but its not lasting forever, she obviously loves you or she would of put her career first, so in that sense your being a bit selfish but if you are gona split she deserves the resepect of you telling her its over you dont need a long conversation just tell her she deserves more you want something else and leave, if your with her for survial then its not a relationship, go and see your local council and ask for housing but its not just your feelings remember HER! how about trying engenieering jobs you canb earn whilst you learn have a look on direct.gov.uk for apprentiships for adults you could bring in a wage aswell

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